Last night, as I sat in on the third lecture since Monday that I was attending voluntarily, I realized something was amiss. The director of Nourish International was speaking ten feet away from me, taking questions from a small, engaged audience, and my mind was blank. And quite frankly, I am still a touch disappointed in myself.
Without a doubt, every lecture and workshop I have attended this year has benefitted me in some way, but I have begun realizing that I am not maximizing these opportunities. My university attracts highly accomplished men and women to come and speak on a wide range of issues, and I feel that I should usually be able glean something extra, something particularly relevent to my own life, out of the experience…
While I reflected on the events of the past two days, I came to the conclusion that I can bring about these improvements with just a few simple goals:
- Research – Much of this problem comes from walking blindly into the lecture, and being forced to develop questions based solely on the material presented, rather than knowing more about the topic beforehand and asking about relevant issues which truly interest me. Alternatively, I need to begin preparing a few questions which would work in most settings.
- Synthesize – Should I continue educating myself in this way, I need to start drawing more connections. One of my favorite parts about the seminar I am in is that I have already done enough outside reading that I can relate prior knowledge to the discussion of the day. Currently, however, this only applies to a few fields, and I know that I can broaden these horizons.
- Organize – Throughout my adolescence, no matter how complex my schedule, I could always keep track of every upcoming event in my head, without the need to record anything in a planner. This has changed. I set up a Google Calendar yesterday, created a much more effective filing system on my email account, and am trying to put my life “in order.”
Almost all of my readers are in college or beyond. I would appreciate any suggestions or hints… success stories or failed attempts are equally welcome. Thank you.